It's a personal decision. Not everyone wants to go through a painful, traumatic recovery AGAIN, after going through chemo, a mastectomy, and possibly radiation. As long as you're happy with yourself, nothing else matters. About 18 years ago, maybe more, my mother had a single mastectomy and was told she could not get an implant right away. By the time they said she could, she no longer cared to go through more surgical recovery after completing all those months of chemo and all the suffering it brought, plus having to reopen the wound from the scar to insert an implant, risk issues of infection, etc. All surgery has its risks, and some people would rather not put themselves through them, if it's not a necessity. Why should WE dictate what THEY should or must do with their bodies and physical appearance?

I admire your courage and I have to say that you all look very amazing awesome beautiful with flat! Any man divorced you for that reason doesn't deserve you. He is just a selfish unhuman being!

I love you all, beautiful shining stars!

Janet